An artist friend of mine Fredericks Ngo Kii posted this on his facebook page sometime ago. I thought I’d share it, as yesterday I had a difficult conversation and as I came away from it I was reminded of this beautiful lesson of remaining true to yourself, of recognising, accepting and embracing your life mission, no matter how painful the steps are along the way.
in French and English
“Un Maître Zen vit un scorpion se noyer et décida de le tirer de l’eau. Lorsqu’il le fit, le scorpion le piqua. Par l’effet de la douleur, le maître lâcha l’animal qui de nouveau tomba à l’eau en train de se noyer. Le maître tenta de le tirer nouvellement et l’animal le piqua encore. Un jeune disciple qui était en train d’observer se rapprocha du Maître et lui dit :«Excusez-moi M…aître, mais m……ais pourquoi insistez vous??? Ne comprenez vous pas qu’à chaque fois que vous tenterez de le tirer de l’eau il va vous piquer ? » Le maître répondit: « La nature du scorpion est de piquer et cela ne va pas changer la mienne qui est d’aider. »
Alors, le maître réfléchît et à l’aide d’une feuille, il tira le scorpion de l’eau et sauva sa vie, puis s’adressant à son jeune disciple, il continua: “Ne change pas ta nature si quelqu’un te fait mal, prends juste des précautions. Les uns poursuivent le bonheur, les autres le créent. Préoccupe-toi plus de ta conscience que de ta réputation. Parce que ta conscience est ce que tu es, et ta réputation c’est ce que les autres pensent de toi…Quand la vie te présente mille raisons de pleurer, montre-lui que tu as mille raisons pour sourire.”
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“A Zen Master saw a scorpion drowning and decided to remove it from the water. When he did, the scorpion stung him. As a result of the pain, the Master dropped the animal which fell into the water and it again began to drown. The Master tried once more to take it out, and the animal stung him once more. A young disciple who was observing approached the Master and said. “Excuse me M….aster, but b…ut why do you insist? Do you not understand that every time you try to take it from the water it will sting you?” The Master replied: “The nature of the scorpion is to sting and that will not change mine, which is to help.”
Then the Master reflected, and with aid of a leaf, he took the scorpion out of the water and saved its life, then turning to his young disciple, he continued:
“Do not change your nature if someone hurts you, just take precautions. Some pursue happiness, others create it. Concern yourself more with your conscience than your reputation. Because your conscience is what you are and your reputation is what others think of you…When life presents you a thousand reasons to cry, show it that you have a thousand reasons to smile.”
Fred and I met in 2008 whilst working at the Paris Jazz Roots Festival. His commitment to Tap as an organic street dance was inspiring.
Fredericks Ngo Kii
African/French tap dancer – Paris, France
“Since 13 years ago I developped a form of tap oriented evolution of “street tap” mixing styles, funk rhythm and hip hop gestures.”